Dancing before the Lord unashamed & unapologetic: life lessons from king David and Michal.5/16/2020
By Misti House  I had the privilege of hearing Misti share this lesson via video and was so blessed by it, I asked if she would be willing to be a guest blogger to which she graciously said yes. Michal has an interesting story and I hope this is a blessing to you as well. What a different story might have been written about Michal, the first wife of King David, if only she had been a woman after God’s own heart. Michal was the youngest daughter of King Saul. She was the first wife of David. She loved her husband in the beginning. She once helped him escape from her father’s attack. Later on, she forsook him, becoming the wife of Phalti. She was a woman full of pride and had a loyal love only for prestige. She was eventually restored to David, but her love for him ultimately turned to scorn and disdain. Dancing before the Lord Let’s look at some of their story in Scripture and pull out some truths and lessons that we can learn and apply to our own lives. And David danced before the Lord with all his might; and David was girded with a linen ephod. So David and all the house of Israel brought up the ark of the Lord with shouting, and with the sound of the trumpet. And as the ark of the Lord came into the city of David, Michal Saul's daughter looked through a window, and saw king David leaping and dancing before the Lord; and she despised him in her heart. {2 Samuel 6:14-16} Wow! Despised is a strong word. It actually means to feel contempt or a deep repugnance for. Some synonyms for the word include: detest, hate, loathe, and abhor. I don’t know about you, but I would hate for my spouse to despise me for demonstrating my affection before the Lord. That is what was happening here. Michal misunderstood David’s motives. She had no appreciation for the event. She failed to understand the significance of bringing the Ark of the Covenant into the city of David and she deeply resented him for his public display. David was celebrating with enthusiasm the arrival of the Ark, the presence of God. He was pouring out his heart and worship in the presence of the Lord. But because Michal neither shared David’s heart for God, nor did she share his same faith, she failed to understand what was taking place. She didn’t get it. Here are some lessons we can learn from the life of Michal: Michal may have been a king’s daughter, but she lacked the heart and character of true royalty. Michal made no effort to understand her husband’s Godward desires. In return, she passed wrong judgment upon him. Michal was a mirror image of an angry and outspoken wife. In her eyes, she saw him disrobe in the sight of slave girls, & though his dance vulgar. She accused David’s display as unworthy of the dignity of a king. Then David returned to bless his household. And Michal the daughter of Saul came out to meet David, and said, How glorious was the king of Israel to day, who uncovered himself to day in the eyes of the handmaids of his servants, as one of the vain fellows shamelessly uncovereth himself! {2 Samuel 6:20} We must be so careful not to make this same mistake.
And David said unto Michal, It was before the Lord, which chose me before thy father, and before all his house, to appoint me ruler over the people of the Lord, over Israel: therefore will I play before the Lord. And I will yet be more vile than thus, and will be base in mine own sight: and of the maidservants which thou hast spoken of, of them shall I be had in honour. {2 Samuel 6:21-22}
David realized that they could never share the same heart for God, and as a response, he cut his bride from his heart. Michal was eaten up with pride and had no room for tolerance or acceptance. There was no harmony in their relationship, which didn’t make for a good marriage, and they eventually separated. Who are the Michal’s who need to be cut from your heart?
When dancing for Jesus you may be misunderstood for your Christian faith. There may be people in your life who fail to understand your righteous motives or behaviors. David had experienced numerous victories with the Lord and had much cause for celebration. Maybe you can relate and that is why you dance for Jesus. But not all can relate, because not all have shared in these types of victories. Pray for the Michal’s in your life and bless them. Pray that God would open their spiritual eyes and that they would experience a change of heart and become a man or woman after God’s heart. Pray that they would come to experience victories from the Lord in their own life. Remember that man can’t see as God sees. We must forgive others, as Jesus has forgiven us, even when we are misunderstood or despised, because they know not what they do. Here is some Good News: God does know. God sees and understands all. He sees you clearly and loves you unconditionally. He understands fully who you are and why you celebrate Him. He also understands the pain of being misunderstood and despised for His faith and obedience. Because He sees and knows all, we can talk to Him about anything and everything. Lessons to Learn from the Life of David: David danced before the Lord unashamed & unapologetic. He was willing to strip himself bare and be undignified before God. We must recognize, as born-again Christians, we don’t have to look the part to play the part. We don’t have to dress to impress as a queen or princess, in order to be seen as royalty. We must understand that we are children of God. We must remember our God given identity. For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together. {Romans 8:14-17 NIV} If you have received Christ as Lord and Savior, then you are a new creation. You have been given a new name. You have become a child of the one true King. That is your royal inheritance as sons and daughters of God. Therefore, if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. {2 Corinthians 5:17} We don’t have to prove our identity or force it upon others. All we have to do is receive it. We must believe and know who God is to us and who we are to Him. We can be free and comfortable in our own skin, to dance before our kin, our heavenly Father. Don’t allow the Michal’s in your life to put shame back on you- the shame that Jesus rid you of and stripped you from. Thou hast turned for me my mourning into dancing: thou hast put off my sackcloth, and girded me with gladness; To the end that my glory may sing praise to thee, and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give thanks unto thee for ever. {Psalm 30:11-12}
At times we are our own Michal’s. Sometimes we have inner voices that are our biggest hurdle and we have to learn to get over ourselves. We have to learn how to get over “SELF.” We have to get over self-hatred, self-doubt, self-pity, and self-centeredness before we can gain self-confidence and grow in self-love.Sometimes the Lord has to stretch us and work our “SELF” out in order to prepare us for what He is calling us into. God is training us to run the race He has set before us. But the Michal’s scream from the sidelines in an attempt to stop our progression and keep us from advancing, leaping, and dancing. We must learn how to cut these condemning voices out of our hearts and listen to the voice of the Holy Spirit inside of us if we want to overcome these personal hurdles in our lives. We must not look down on, judge, or despise ourselves. “Self” is a hurdle we all must overcome. And it is one that trips up many.The enemy wants to distract us by tempting us to not only fear the thoughts and opinions of man, but also put our focus on ourselves, rather than rest and trust in the presence and assurance of God. This is often how he gets in the way of our promise and causes us to fall. We must remember that we dance not for ourselves. It’s not all about us. It’s all about Him. What became of Michal and David? David went on to become everything God said he would. David finished the race strong. David was victorious! David dances unashamed and unapologetic. Allow God’s thoughts about you and words spoken over you to define who you are and what you do, so that you become who God has called you to be. You have a destiny, a purpose, and a royal position in Christ. “Then shall the King will say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: {Matthew 25:34} Don’t allow the Michal’s in your life to hold you back and keep you from living a victorious life. Michal missed out. Michal lost what she had and never obtained what she might have had. She never had children. She lost the lasting companionship with her husband, King David, and most importantly, she missed out on a personal relationship with God, the true King. She missed out on her royal inheritance from the Lord. Her life could have had a very different ending, if only she would have humbled herself, asked for forgiveness, let go of her pride, and become a woman after God’s own heart. She could have shared in her husband’s victories and triumphs. She desired position, rather than fruition. As a result, she missed out on the abundant, fruitful life God wanted her to have. What will become of you? Ask Holy Spirit what He is saying to you through this message. Where do you fit into this story? What role do you play in this narrative? Maybe, like David, you feel misunderstood because of your faith in God, or looked down upon for your demonstration of worship. Maybe you are a born-again Christian and God is stretching you and calling you to overcome some hurdles in your own life. Maybe you are trying to be obedient and move forward in the direction He is moving you, but you are feeling the condemnation of Michal’s trying to put shame on you and hold you back. Talk to the Lord about what you are facing and listen to what He has to say. Trust in your identity. Trust in the person He has called you to be. Allow Him to judge the motives of your heart and to be the one to speak to you, guide you, and keep you on the right track. Living by the Power of the Holy Spirit There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. {Romans 8:1} Maybe you identify more with Michal at this time, and you find yourself looking down on others. Maybe it’s time to ask for forgiveness from God. The Lord loves you and wants to help you make wise choices. He will help you offer grace and acceptance to others. He will bless you as you humble yourself and ask for His guidance. Like David and Michal’s relationship, we were once cut off and separated from God due to the sin of Adam and Eve, but Jesus made a way for His Bride to be reunited. Because of His work on the cross, we now have complete access to come before His throne of grace and enter into His presence without guilt, shame, or condemnation. Jesus desires companionship and relationship with us. He wants us for His Bride. All we have to do is be willing to give Him our whole heart. We can invite Him to come into our hearts and ask Him to forgive us for all our sins and He will make us new. God wants to see you receive His royal robe and watch you make music with your life. Like David, we can live a victorious life, we can become a man or woman after God’s own heart, and we can dance unashamed and unapologetic before the Lord. Messiah’s Music I will greatly rejoice in the Lord, my soul shall be joyful in my God; for he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation, he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decketh himself with ornaments, and as a bride adorneth herself with her jewels. {Isaiah 61:10} To read more about Misti and her work you can visit her blog here. My dear friend Rebekah recently got back from her missions trip to Nepal. I asked her to share a few things about her trip and how the Lord worked in her life while there. I was very excited when she said yes and am honored to have her as my very first guest author and I hope it won't be the last! I pray that it will be a blessing to you as it was to me! May we always keep missions, both foreign and domestic in our hearts and prayers! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hello! My name is Rebekah Grisso. I am a friend of Sarah Schurman. We met and become good friends when I was in college. Sarah asked me to write this article about my trip in Nepal. As a teenager God called me to be a missionary. Since then God has allowed me to take several short-term mission trips, one of which was seven and a half months in Nepal. Before I share How God grew me, allow me first to explain a little of the culture of Nepal. The people of Nepal are very, very poor. There is electricity, but it is on only certain times throughout the day and night. The food is very spicy (to me) but delicious! They eat a lot of rice, noodles, chicken and potatoes. The streets are very crowded with people, buses, cars, motorcycles, vendors and shops. Horns are constantly blowing and people are always yelling! You may have heard or read things like "You Know You Are a... If...." We came up with a few sayings "you know you live in a dusty country when... 1. The tap water is light brown like weak tea! (Thankfully they do have bottled water for cooking and drinking!) 2. When mopping, your water becomes black and your rinse water is as dirty as your soapy water. 3. You can wash your car every few hours. 4. Your fingernails always have dirt under them. 5. You wash your hands and the soap gets dirty. Also, "You May Not Live in America if..." 1. There are no working stop lights. There is only one stop sign and that is at the airport and nobody stops for it. 2. You sit on the floor for everything. 3. There is trash everywhere. 4.You have to heat water for a bath. 5. Your nickname is White Blood Cells." In Nepal, God really taught me to rejoice in him no matter what the challenge (no tap water for almost a month, bed bugs, sickness, lots of rain and mud) and to be more thankful for the blessings He has given me. The Lord also dealt with me and showed me things in my life that were not pleasing to Him and that were hindering me from drawing closer to Him. I am so glad that God allowed me to go to Nepal, for there my life was changed in almost every way. While the scenery in Nepal is very beautiful, Nepal is a land of deep spiritual darkness. The main religion is Hinduism, which is a filthy religion of idol worship, immorality and cruelty. There is much demon possession. The people greatly need the love and glorious gospel of Jesus Christ. Soon after I arrived, the missionary took my dad and I to a village. A couple in their church wanted us to come and eat dinner with them. While we were there, she shared her testimony. I do not really remember much of what she said, but her testimony was the beginning of God showing himself to me in a deeper way. This lady had been demon possessed. As she told her life in bondage before she met Christ, there was no joy in her face. But when she got to the part about how God delivered her and set her free, her face glowed with smiles and pure joy. I left there in tears realizing the power of God. I have grown up in church and been taught the Bible all of my life, and I believe the Bible and know it is truth. However, here in America we sometimes just have a knowledge that God is powerful and as we read the stories in Scripture about Jesus casting out demons, we think that is great. God is powerful. But when you hear the testimony of a person who truly has been delivered from Satan's power, it makes the Bible come alive. Two verses became very real to me after hearing this lady's testimony. John 8:32 and 36 "And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed." God is at work in this country and there are many who are coming to know the Lord, but millions still do not know God. Please pray for Nepal. |
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