101 questions to ask before getting engaged.

101 Questions to ask before getting engaged is an amazing book! It's a great discussion starter and has so many helpful questions and thoughts. I have listed a few of the questions below and I strongly recommend buying the book as he has question discussions after each question which is extremely helpful. This book is great to have on hand for loaning out or for counselor's too. I promise that this will make you think whether you are in a serious relationship or want to be.

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1. What makes it easy for you to be open and vulnerable, and what makes it difficult?
   
   
2. What is your greatest fear or concerns about being married? What have you done to address these concerns?
   
   
3. If you were to marry, in what way would you maintain a healthy “interdependence”? What would you depend upon each other for and what would you take personal responsibility for?
   
4. What have you learned from your previous relationships that will make you a better partner from someone at this time?
   
   
5. Describe your spiritual journey over the past ten years, including high and low points.
6. Dreams and aspirations are very important. Have your partner write their response to “if I were to marry I would…” Complete this phrase ten times
7. If something really bothered you about me, how would you go about expressing it to me?
   
8. Ten years from now, where would you like to be emotionally? How about spiritually? How about economically? What about family size?
   
9. What are the “must have” and “must not have” qualities in a person you may want to spend the rest of your life with?
10. Describe how you handle stress and frustration. What creates the greatest stress and frustrations in your life?​